A ke nj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb apo nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt pran\u00eb , \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb shum\u00eb gra ia b\u00ebjn\u00eb vetes kur mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje serioze. Dikush mund t\u00eb sillet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb perfekte kur gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb e qet\u00eb, por karakteri i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb zakonisht shihet vet\u00ebm kur shfaqen problemet e para.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhjeje, shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz shohin vet\u00ebm an\u00ebn e mir\u00eb t\u00eb partnerit t\u00eb tyre dhe injorojn\u00eb shenjat e vogla paralajm\u00ebruese . Vet\u00ebm m\u00eb von\u00eb e kuptojn\u00eb se personi sillet krejt\u00ebsisht ndryshe kur ndodh stresi, mosmarr\u00ebveshjet ose presioni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I famshmi Sigmund Freud besonte se karakteri i nj\u00eb personi shihet m\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb momentet kur gj\u00ebrat nuk shkojn\u00eb sipas planit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Edhe sot, k\u00ebshillat e tij t\u00eb thjeshta mund t\u2019i ndihmojn\u00eb shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz ta kuptojn\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb personin q\u00eb kan\u00eb pran\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur nj\u00eb njeri i dob\u00ebt tregon fytyr\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Frojdi besonte se suksesi i jasht\u00ebm, parat\u00eb dhe pamja e mir\u00eb nuk thon\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr forc\u00ebn e brendshme t\u00eb dikujt. Nj\u00eb pyetje shum\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb: si reagon nj\u00eb person kur \u00ebsht\u00eb i bezdisur, kur p\u00ebrballesh me t\u00eb ose kur nuk merr at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh nj\u00eb partner i k\u00ebndsh\u00ebm kur gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, mosmarr\u00ebveshjet e para shpesh zbulojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb re m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb prov\u00eb e vog\u00ebl q\u00eb zbulon shum\u00eb p\u00ebr karakterin e tij<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse doni t\u00eb zbuloni n\u00ebse ka nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt pran\u00eb jush, provoni sa vijon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ngrini nj\u00eb tem\u00eb q\u00eb e dini se nuk pajtohet me q\u00ebndrimin e tij. Shprehni mendimin tuaj me qet\u00ebsi dhe kushtojini v\u00ebmendje reagimit t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse ai menj\u00ebher\u00eb kalon n\u00eb sulm, ngre z\u00ebrin ose nuk mund t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb nj\u00eb mendim tjet\u00ebr, kjo mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e papjekuris\u00eb emocionale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb \u00e7do debat. Ai do t\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb, do t\u00eb t\u00eb shpjegoj\u00eb pik\u00ebpamjet e tij dhe do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjidhje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pse nj\u00eb njeri i dob\u00ebt mezi e p\u00ebrballon presionin<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shum\u00eb gra ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb e ngat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb temperamentin me forc\u00ebn e karakterit. Megjithat\u00eb, ekziston nj\u00eb ndryshim i madh midis nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb di t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb emocionet dhe nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb nuk mund t’i kontrolloj\u00eb reagimet e tij.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur ke nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt pran\u00eb, \u00e7do problem mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shum\u00eb m\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb nga \u00e7\u2019duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb marr\u00ebveshjes, ka debate, t\u00ebrheqje ose zhvendosje faji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje dhe martes\u00eb, gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb si sillet njeriu kur gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb, por si sillet kur vijn\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
K\u00ebshilla e Frojdit q\u00eb shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz e mbajn\u00eb mend edhe sot<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Para se t\u2019i besosh dikujt plot\u00ebsisht, shiko si sillet kur di\u00e7ka nuk i p\u00eblqen .<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At\u00ebher\u00eb mund ta shihni leht\u00ebsisht ndryshimin midis nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb ka forc\u00eb t\u00eb brendshme dhe nj\u00eb personi q\u00eb e ka t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballoj\u00eb presionin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sepse nj\u00eb partner i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb me ty vet\u00ebm kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb, por ai q\u00eb di t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm kur jeta sjell probleme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
A ke nj\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb apo nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt pran\u00eb , \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb shum\u00eb gra ia b\u00ebjn\u00eb vetes kur mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lidhje serioze. Dikush mund t\u00eb sillet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb perfekte kur gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb e qet\u00eb, por karakteri i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb zakonisht shihet vet\u00ebm kur shfaqen problemet e para. N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":27587,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27586","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-stil"],"yoast_head":"\n